Julie F asked:
Has any women experienced this?I have been married for 3 years my husband has always made comments and drool for my lingerie. He once wore my panties in front of me for laughs (so i thought ).Yesterday when i came home early i walked in on him and he was wearing my satin corset ,matching panties and stockings and he was very excited and taking care of himself pretty good . i’m unsure how to feel ? has he been doing this often is he interested in me or just my stuff? do other wives have a husband like this , is it wrong?
Rosemary - Satin Panties contributor
Has any women experienced this?I have been married for 3 years my husband has always made comments and drool for my lingerie. He once wore my panties in front of me for laughs (so i thought ).Yesterday when i came home early i walked in on him and he was wearing my satin corset ,matching panties and stockings and he was very excited and taking care of himself pretty good . i’m unsure how to feel ? has he been doing this often is he interested in me or just my stuff? do other wives have a husband like this , is it wrong?
Rosemary - Satin Panties contributor
June - Satin Panties contributor
yes it is not
Ray - Satin Panties contributor
I have mixed feelings on this, sorry I cant help you.
Todd - Satin Panties contributor
uh, it’s probably ok. that’s a little extreme. you should probably **** him off for about five times a day until he calms down.
Samuel - Satin Panties contributor
Your husband is a cross dresser- Men who like to wear womens’ clothing. End of story.
Brad - Satin Panties contributor
Sounds like he’s a cross dresser. Once he becomes a drag queen… be afraid… be very afraid. ha! Don’t know what to say, sister… why not just come out and ask him?
Ramon - Satin Panties contributor
My husband will lay an outfit across our bed, but it is for me to put on..not him.
He can not fit in any of my stuff. He would never try to though.
I think that is sorta weired. I would be kinds creeped out if I were you.
Joel - Satin Panties contributor
Have fun as long as it don’t leave the Bedroom, every couple has at least one thing they don’t want the world to know.
Allen - Satin Panties contributor
your husbands a freak or wanted to be a girl you need a real man sweet heart,throw him to the curb the ******.
Stephanie - Satin Panties contributor
If its exciting to him and YOU don’t think its wrong you should be supportive of it and then you will receive the benefits, not some towel.
Zachary - Satin Panties contributor
WOW! I am a husband and this is not normal by my thinking, but I could be the odd one and your hubby the normal. Perhaps you should take the direct approach and ask him how long he has liked wearing women’s stuff. If its a long time thing and can accept him despite this behavior then perhaps you two could have a ‘girls’ nite out…goooood luck
Agnes - Satin Panties contributor
Chances are he has been doing this secretly for a while. I can imagine how unsure you must feel… not only is he dressing up but in YOUR stuff!
Is this something you can incorporate into your *** life? Perhaps he wants to play dress up with you?
It really sounds like you need to talk to him and see what is going on. It is true that a lot of guys who dress up are still straight… just make sure you know where he stands and that YOU can deal with it emotionally.
Tony - Satin Panties contributor
This is what we call a ******. Its just something a little out of the norm that he may have kept hidden from you out of embarrassment. Its actually a good step if he is feeling comfortable with you seeing him like that. He isnt with you for your stuff. It is really easy to buy lingere online and discreetly, if thats the case he wouldnt need you to get ahold of such things. It probably weirds you out because it is not what you specifically get off on but if you are happy together see if you can work with it, if not let him know that if he wants to do that you are fine with it but keep it private, you arent comfortable being included. Just dont alienate him or come down on him for it if you love him and want to keep a close relationship with him it may make it hard for him to open up to you in the future.
Arthur - Satin Panties contributor
If you don’t understand why your husband does this why don’t you ask him instead of us. I bet he would be glad to tell you but please don’t be judgmental when talking to him. if you are ok with this happening when you are home you could play dress up together and even go shopping for his own lingerie. if you are a little uncomfortable with him doing dress up in front of you, ask him to only do this when you are not home. but remember this what ever you tell him will not stop him from wearing woman’s lingerie. Yes I do the same thing, My wife is not crazy about but she knows what it means to me, so about once a month we have our make believe ******* encounter. She tells me she has never been with another woman but she really knows how to take my bra off.
Gene - Satin Panties contributor
Actually my dear despite all the negativity , This is a pretty common fetish, Men do do this for a serious sexual thrill. many web sites are making many many dollars feeding off this via phone *** audio and video recordings , Powerful strong men do this. for many reasons , I would feel safe saying he probably has a major interest in you yes as well as your stuff. The main question you need to ask is can you deal with it ? It can be rather fun to play off . I myself find it very **** and a great way to keep a guy in check. most any women could very easily turn any man into a panty wearing cuddle bug if she wanted. most men who do this are in fact very straight and adore women so i can not tell you what to do , so you will have to try it before you say no if you try it and it turns you on to take control sometimes so be it , if not at least you did not just toss it to the curb. is it wrong? NO There is no laws saying what we can and cant wear ! lingerie is made to excite men it just excites some men even more . my guy is a 24/7 pantyboy under my thumb he and i both love it ! good luck
Edwin - Satin Panties contributor
AND another one gets caught !!!! oooops May i suggest trying something , go to the store get a nice black leather corset skin tight leather pants , high heels or boots . get a ******** paddle . call him on the phone tell him you are on your way home and he needs to be under the sheets in the girlish stuff you caught him in when you get there . go in the room and show your new look to him , make him bend over the edge of the bed and go to town on his bottom with that paddle and call him naughty things like sissy girl bad etc etc . You wont need to worry about him ( taking care of himself ) he will have a mess in those panties from your appearance and ******** . if it dont work i will let you try it on me lol
Marvin - Satin Panties contributor
he could be crossdresser