No, that’s degrading. What if you were watching a guy swing his balls all over the screen, would he like it?

Although I am in total agreement with you on the issue…… it does call into question; just how well do you really know your husband? I mean…. what else do you not know about what appeals to him? his wants? What turns him on or off? Where does he draw the line? on this or that? What else is there about him that would shock you or surprise you? If I were you, I’d take this as a “red flag” and use it to start an intimate discussion to get to know a side of him that maybe you don’t know about. But don’t accuse him of anything or get angry, that would only cause him to retreat into a “shell” from you. He might just “shut down” and become silent. Get a Couple’s Board Game…. it’s suppose to enrich your relationship and help you to “know” each other better. You may have to get it online. Just google Board Games for couples.

I’d be grateful. At least you didn’t find search terms like “gay” or “kiddie”.

if it gets in the way of your marriage then it is a problem. just know that he is only looking. EVERYONE including you have at least thought about someone else at some point in your relationship. i think it’s not a bad thing. i do not do it but that is just me.

Most men like to look at stuff like that. I personally don’t find it that big of a deal, but it really depends on how it makes you feel. My big thing is don’t hide it. If it’s hidden then I get concerned.