Lots of men love it when a girl wears pantyhose. I think you should really go for it, especially since you seem to be dressing up a bit. Pantyhose just complete the outfit and in any case make any pair of legs look a hundred times better.

if you’re worried about looking too pale why not go for a spray tan a few days before the date, and then you wnt have a problem

Women hardly ever wear pantyhose anymore unless it’s a professional occasion. Are you going somewhere fancy? Is that why you’re dressing up?

its fine that you don’t wear pantyhose with your dress and heels.. Most men don’t really care anyway about that kind of thing.