First of all, wearing a bra, any kind of bra, to bed does NOT give you cancer. I wear a bra to bed every night. I would suggest a more comfortable bra, a sports bra, or a tank top with a bra built in.

if i was u i would just go to bed ***** and if u wake up with no red marks then keep going to bed ***** wach day

Try a sports bra.
peace

I have never worn a bra to bed even though I should. I am a 34 D but at my age (45) I think it is too late to start. However my daughter (18 years old and 32C) has always worn a bra to bed. She too had the pain, soreness and redness you describe until she got fitted for a bra without the underwire. She purchased a very good support bra not just a cheep wal-mart type. She still gets the support she needs and the comfort she wants.

well i would stop wearing a wired bra to bed ive heard that it will like cut off a blood stream or something and thats not good so no wired bras

wear a sports bra.

Wear a sports bra to bed. A simple one. Preferably made of cotton. No wires, no hooks. Just a plain and simple one. This will squish your ***** a little closer to you and keep them from sagging, also make them more out of your way. The cotton will breathe a bit so you do not get **** sweat (lol). You do not need to impress anyone while you sleep so this is a good type of bra to try. Opt for one with thick flat straps.
Best of luck taking care of your gals

If you are going to sleep in underwear then get yourself a soft bra (wireless) so you’re a bit more comfortable

Take a warning, but don’t wear an underwire to bed because that’s a way to get ****** cancer. Science prooves it.

wear like sport bras
that’s what i wear